Monday, November 04, 2019

I Lost My Phone

I am quite careless with this thing I admit. Inside the toilet, on the entrance of the house, in the kitchen between forks and spoons and next to the fridge, there are specific places where I put my phone that I know for sure. Have checked all these places, it's not there.

Writing a note right now so I can get away with that feeling of small, lost, and disbelieve.

One thing for sure is that the phone is at home.

Because when I arrived at the front door of my apartment, I didn't took off my earphone because I wanted to finish the chapter 7 from my audiobook "Sapiens" by Yuval Noah Harari.  Got inside the apartment, fold the scooter, walked upstairs, turned the door key, got inside, put away the scooter, took off the jacket, no, I took out my phone that was on the front pocket of the jacket first, then took it off, then hung it on the coat hanger. Then what?

Then I walked into the kitchen and did my thing. I prepared lunch, the phone is not there. Then D's cousin walked in, hung out with him for little bit, while playing with my phone, or did I play with it?

Well, now it's after lunch, and I could have played with the phone while hanging out on the sofa, but here I am. Feeling, lost. Seriously.

I could read a book, I could make some jewellery, but where would this phone be?

Dinh had looked around the house, swept the whole apartment! no luck. He called my phone but as always it is on silent. Got him yelled at me a little well, my fault, I always think that if my ringer is on it will wake up my baby.  Thing is the baby is now almost 6! Even if there's a thunder she would not wake up.

I am back!!!

Ok I found my phone !!!

Earlier I typed "How to find my android that is on silent", google suggested me to go to this site and it forced the phone to ring even if it is on silent mode.

My gosh. the phone is on the sofa all this time! How didn't I know, you ask. Actually it is hidden under a Donald Duck comics belonged to my daughter, she must have read them but forgot to put them away. The comic was opened, so I don't want to screw up with the page. I didn't even try to lift it to find out. And it's there all these 3 hours time !!!

D's aunt was here too experience all these, poor lady. Superstitious as an old asian lady, she asked the guardian of the house to reveal where the phone is.  When the phone rang she came out of her room and she said,

"You found it right? I just asked the guardian of the house to help you."
"When?" I asked
"Like 5 minutes ago."

I am somewhat superstitious so I kinda thing that it's the guardian of the house who told me to look on google.

"You need to buy bananas tomorrow." she continued
"Because I promise this to the guardian of the house once he found your phone"

I bought 4 very gorgeous bananas I could find the day after.

Just out of curiousity, you believe in superstitious?

Tuesday, September 10, 2019

Instagram Tips and Trick 2019

Would like to share to you what I had been doing on Instagram since last Friday.

I had 3 accounts on instagram, but only 2 have been active. The first is @sianykitty a personal account that is linked to my facebook account. The second is @lesbijouxdesiany this is where I post almost all of my jewelry creation. The idea at the beginning was to get more exposure, but after awhile I feel like it doesn't give me any purpose except for stress.

Everyday I had to figure out what to post in terms of the image as well as the caption.  This is nothing for some but for me it had given me stomachache! Worry because I have a lot of unanswered questions like: Would people like it? Who will see my post? Who are these people? Who do I address to? Should I describe the item like I do on Etsy, or talk about a completely different thing but show the jewelry? How much of a personal stuff can be shared through this platform and would they care? Who are they?

Unfortunately there is no answer to these questions yet..

Ok so what will I share then?

First, my goal is to grow this account. For the moment, forget about the whys and let's skip to the hows.

Last Friday I had found this note from etsy community that I found helpful. The writer basically gave list of tips on how to take great photos, the list that you can read it here. To make it short, the image has got to be shot with soft natural sunlight and clean background.  She also mentioned the most liked image on Instagram have been the photos with an image of an ensemble of products.

So I followed the tips and here are the three items that had been posted on @lesbijouxdesiany the hearts for the consecutive images are 55, 39, 41

The result had been positive for me because so far my most favorite image had been 39 likes, and that's a selfie. I had a hunch that those who liked them are my real friends back home who misses me and were happy to see me alive and well here in France. hehe just kidding.

Solution, I will keep in mind of the group shot every time I have a chance to do it.

Second behaviour, I applied some of the stuff that my husband @dinh did a long time ago in 2018, I know this might be a has-been but it works to find out the 'why' eventually. At least for me. read along.

Let me take you to what I do step by step.

Is to find the best hour to post, you can look at your statistic on the top right menu and click on insight. For this you need to switch your account from personal to business

Post. in my case I pick my group image, I caption whatever comes through my mind that day and voilĂ 

Pick 30 hashtags and post them in the comment right after the post you did. I linked my post to my facebook business page, so if I do the hashtag together in the caption there will be too crowded and eventually won't get full caption, so I prefer to do it on the comment. If you have other solution, or you think otherwise, you are more than welcome to convince me :) Now, how to do hashtag? for the moment I just look around on the images I like and just copy some of them accordingly. I also hashtag the name of my etsy boutique that way in case I have an old client who try to find me, they can find me through the #

Scroll through my follow list (the feed that appears when you click the icon home on the lower left) and like them, but not all! just the ones I really like.

Then after, this is when I start applying @dinh's technique. To like the images that are fresh uploaded.  The fresh post that are uploaded in less than 2 hours, the owners are perhaps still online, and will like back. You can scroll through those who like the image and start liking the image who liked the image. get it? hehe. sounds silly.

I am doing slightly different than him though, instead of only like I also leave a 4 letter comment. for example "What an amazing shot!" "I love the background of your image!" I don't do that every time though I also read the caption, respond to it, or try to answer the question if there are questions posted in the caption. Now this is there the 'why' gets answered. With leaving comments I am forced to interact with other instagram members, and if she/he read the comment and reply, it might be a start of an interesting conversation, if it's only positive vibes brought to the table, you can only reap goodness, thus friendship. Isn't this cute? After all Instagram should be a community of like-minded people.

Hearting. See who made comments on your instagram posts, and heart all of them. Reply if there are comments. Remember, 4 words minimum.

STEP 6 (optional)
You can also following other likeminded users, remember just those who you like, not all of them. I need to share you an embarrassing story, one time (actually last weekend) I had been banned from instagram from liking because I had liked too many images. oops. lesson learned. sorry Instagram god.

STEP 7 the final! finally!
Post the story. I notice that those who scroll through instagram would either scroll through the feed or story. But very rarely both. You can post the story and say that you just uploaded new image, or if you are someplace gorgeous you can put it up on the story. And don't forget to hashtag, not 30, just 1 or 2. You can hide the hashtag with a sticker. It would be amazing if you ask questions in the story, or run a poll. Some people told me to also tag a location, but I don't.


This is what I had been doing since last Friday, and today is Tuesday, I had augmented my instagram followers from 230 to 290 today.

Please note that this is my personal experience, so the result might be and will be different. But this doesn't mean that you can't try what I did. Please go out there with more tips and come back to tell me if I am right or not so right. You are welcome to say hello via instagram here or here 24/24 I love to meet new people.

Enjoy your Tuesday! ciao and bisous!

Thursday, May 16, 2019

Handstamped Pouch for Jewelry

The linen pouch that I ordered had arrived, I had been using a muslin drawstring bag since forever and I never ask myself if anybody would like it. Recently a friend who love my jewelry and had bought a lot of them had brought to my attention that she would prefer that if the bag is a little bit more solid. oops. Always have room to learn, right? 

I scour the web to find a vendor and finally found the one with the best price quality ratio, a vendor from Etsy! yaay! I don't want to be bias but I love shopping on Etsy. First because almost all of the seller is always friendly, they always reply to your (even the stupidest) question, I do ask questions and ask for special requests, sorry you guys I am your choosy client.  But this also means that I can appreciate and can understand that some client of mine can be choosy and picky, because I recognise one when I meet one. hehe. And, back to why I love shopping on Etsy, since I am familiar with the platform, I know exactly where to find the terms and condition.

There are two sizes 8x10cm and 10x12cm, because some of my hoop can be too big and can't fit into the 8x10cm pouch. They came in natural color, I had imagined that it would be a bit thinner and more flexible though, but they are a bit rigid, it is obvious that it isn't washed before. But it's alright I prefer it that way. 

So just like the old bag, I want a personalised stamp on it. like on the old pouch I stamped a big red ribbon in front of every pouch. But this time I want to do it differently, so I made myself a little ribbon and a heart handmade stamp made out of an eraser. 

And here goes the result!

I had SOOO MUCHH fun doing this, and forgot when was the last time I had fun, seriously. So I made more and each one is different from the other :D 

Almost forgot, this is the ink I am using

VoilĂ . I know that I don't give you the detail on how to do the stamp, but if you are interested please ask me. I'll be more than happy to show you how to do it. Or you can also youtube it. So many tutorial about it. :) Have a good day ! 

Thursday, May 02, 2019

Colourful Stud Earrings

Sharing you what had occupied me these days. I was inspired by the basketry and the woven work that is normally done with the bamboo or rattan.  I tried to introduce the concept into jewelry making.

I know that I don't want big items, nor heavy, but I want to introduce a lot of colors into the piece.  So I take the old concept I had which is creating small and light jewelry.  I first form the stud base with thicker wire, 18 gauge maximum, hammer to harden them and then the fun part begin: scouring from the old collection of crystals, pearls, normally I already have a main beads that I have in mind then I work forward after that. Like for example the pair above, I chose this pistachio opaque green, looks like a Granny Smith right :), that I had bought awhile ago from a vintage brocanteur from Etsy, as the highlight of the earrings, then I ask myself if I want a monochrome or a contrast to go with this.   

Definitely still in the beginner phase, I don't know how far I will take the work through this into jewellery, but one thing for sure I have so much fun making them. They are available in my Etsy shop Which one is your favourite? 

Monday, April 22, 2019

Happy Easter

It's 11:10, Alexa is playing black-eye-peas, C is dancing all over our messy living room. I should be preparing lunch, finishing the basket  project, or preparing my order, but there is something more important thing to do to note to remember before I forgot everything, before the special moment swallowed by the time. 

We had an amazing day yesterday, strolling downtown Paris, witnessing the aftermath of the yellow jackets with the tags that decorate almost all of the walls all over downtown is not pleasing but other stuff is. To be able to spend time with my husband and daughter, witnessing the same thing while walking, and make little comments on the people with trendy outfits or urban rides.  Stopping whenever we found a little square with slides and swings. I am thanking God for this goodness. 

This morning everybody wakes up late. C woke up with squinty eyes finding me in the living room trying to finish my basket. I just realise that this morning is Easter Sunday. Like automatically every morning we greet each other, so I greet her with no meaning behind. 

"Happy Easter Charlotte!" 
"Happy Easter Mamma!" 

We hugs, then I go back to my basket. She said, "I want to go to hug daddy and give him my easter egg", "Not now honey he is still sleeping" he coughed during the night and it is only fair to let him sleep in a little in this Sunday morning. 

She came back to the living room and approached me, "Mamma what is Easter?" 

I stopped, looked at her. I had not been going to church for almost 10 years now, and feel more enriched than ever.  so I started.

Easter is to celebrate the rising of Jesus from the dead. 

"How did he died?"

There are a lot of mean people who want to kill him, so they forced him to go to the cross and he died there.  But then since he is God, on the third day of him in the tomb he raise from the dead. 


He died on the cross for our mistakes. It is a symbol for us to remember to forgive ourself.  

Then she stared at me with a super blank face, she didn't understand. 

I continued. "Cherie, for example, you spill water on the floor everywhere, you broke my jewelry, and you put a stain on the wall. what happen then?"

"You"ll get angry" 

"yes I will get upset, and get mad at you. Maybe I will scream and go to my room and ask you not to talk to me. But you know that after that I will forgive you. But then what happen with you after?"

"I will be sad, because I didn't do the right thing." 

"You will go to your room and be sad, because you didn't behave well, because you made me angry. Right?"

"Yes" --At this point I saw guilt on her face

"But when you go to your room, you start hating yourself because of what you did. This is where the forgiveness come. That very soft voice, that I call God, will tell you, hey little Charlotte it's alright now. It happened, don't worry about it. I forgive you, your mommy forgive you, thus you need to forgive yourself too. Now, go play. Dress up your barbie, finish up your puzzle, built your lego.. Listen to your music and dance."

I see her eyes lit up. This morning I think I know for sure that she gets what I mean.  

Thursday, April 18, 2019


Do you have any plan for Easter? I don't. Sorry to dissapoint you but the only plan I have is to spend a quality time with my daughter for 2 weeks, at home. I still don't know what to do for the next 2 weeks but I know we will be doing something. Fun. Hopefully. I need to start looking at the activities done at home for a 5 year old.  

Taking a nice walk to the park everyday should not be a bad idea. We live 5 minutes away from Paris, and if you really look, there are TONS of free fun activities to do there. I need to look. then. Will keep you update about it, if you know a place, or an activity, if you know anything please let me know in the comment. 

Back to work. 

Should I re-update you what I have been doing these days? Since the last blog post is like 1 year and 1 month ago? not obliged right..  But I am thinking this is a personal blog of a jewelry creator, woman, mother, wife.. I think I owe you an update about personal stuff.  If you are following me on instagram @lesbijouxdesiany you have perhaps had some updates on what happened. But no it is not the same. For me, the blog should be intimate. 

Perhaps I won't be having anybody reading this, so this gives me some liberty to write whatever I would like to write. This is a good thing :)

Do you write stuff to yourself? Like something that is bothering you that needs to be out somehow. I do. And I still keep them in secret right now. Don't worry I will not share that with you, because they are just junks that needs to get out of my chest. This is my soul cleansing mechanism that seems to be working, so I am doing it. 

So here, the plan was to update what is happening with me, in terms of creativity and what are the things I learn in that department. And I also keep a journal of meditation, books I read that means a lot, and I feel like it is too bad if I don't share that to anyone.  I love taking gorgeous scenes that I would love to also share here.

I love to write, and when I was a teenager I do it on a daily basis. Nothing serious you guys, sometimes a poem, and most of the times are about boys, oops. I find refuge in writing.  My family told me to never write about anything of what I feel. I understand from their point of view, they don't want their daughter to be judged by others. My Chinese descendant upbringing had always remind me that the women are judged by her background or things she did in the past (damn!) So keeping a blog, even to a 39 years old me who had been living in a free country for more than half of her life, I still have this voice behind me that says, "Don't say anything, if not you will be judged." 

I would love to overthrow that idea, and I am, I disagree with it. but the nagging voice is still there. It is like a combat, sometimes you win sometimes the voice wins. 

Today I would like to give in to the teenager me who loves to write. She might not write well but she enjoys it and you only life once, let's do what you makes your soul sings. 

to be continued... 

Thursday, March 15, 2018

Infatuation With Pearls

Stepping out of my comfort zone of hoops, I have been infatuated with pearls and have been wanting to create something big, oversized, but not overwhelming the space.  But rather light, modern, and airy. Geometric but also feminine.

Maybe there are plenty of you that can relate. I have always been the creator who made something with myself in mind. In every creation, I ask myself: "Would I wear this?" 

This one, for example. In the making, I adore this dusty lavender hue so much and thinking maybe I will keep this pair. Unfortunately, violet is not my color nor the yellow gold.  

Any jewelry in yellow gold is delicate, expensive, conservative, high class and feminine. This is how I feel about this pair of floating pearl escargot hoop earrings

While with the rose gold, the mood shift slowly to more modern, gorgeous, chic but effortless laissez-faire.  During this process I had been experimenting with shapes, and this came out prettier than what I have in my mind. I love how the dark pearl lies perfectly in the middle like a superstar but doesn't eliminate the existence of the ear frame.

And lastly the sideway crescent, still with peach pearl. For this shape, I chose rose gold. it falls effortlessly down your earlobe. Amplifying indeed, but only to your style. 

There are still creativity untold, and I definitely will come back to fulfil the crave. Until then, I would like to know your opinion. Do you have a preference material for a jewelry? and what gemstone do you like the most? and on a more personal question, If you are a creator, do you also think about yourself when you create something?